Once surrogacy was all over the world was
not accepted the way it is accepted nowadays. However, with the modernization
of technology, the mentality of society has also changed towards surrogacy. Surrogacy in India and in some other
countries is legally and commercially accepted. However, in some of the
countries the commercial surrogacy is not yet accepted. However, there is a growing
trend found that young women are willing let their wombs to else either against
of money or sometime for nothing. Here,
I will point out 5 reasons why girl are becoming surrogates willingly.
Financial
Reward: Yes, one of the main reasons for girls to
take surrogacy willingly is the heavy monetary reward that is being offered. However,
it cannot be treated as a service fee but still getting a good amount of money
can help the surrogates to fulfill their dreams. Married women can fulfill lot of
unfulfilled dreams associated with the family Such as buying a new house or car
or to give their children a better education. However, in case of the unmarried
girls they use the money to fulfill career goals. They can use the money to get higher
education or to set up their own business. Whatever, the reason it may be but
financial reward is one of the biggest driving agent behind to get surrogate
mother.
Precious
Gift: The monetary compensation is a big player
behind opting surrogacy for many of the women. Yet giving a precious gift to
someone is also instigation behind it. Surrogacy is generally availed by the
couples who fail to conceive in biological process. The surrogate mother
carries the baby in her womb and gives them the beautiful gift of parent hood.
A boy becomes father or a girl becomes mother and no money can buy this
happiness. A surrogate mother can only give this type of gift.
Self
Confidence: It can be seen in both ways, to become
a surrogate mother one needs a immense self-confidence and when one gives birth
to a child with whom she won’t have a biological connection boost up the
confidence on a different level. Giving birth to another’s child gives the feel
of making another family complete. Thus, not only married women but single
women are also willingly give their womb to let.
Being
Mother Again: It is generally said that to being
the mother is the best thing that can happen to a women. The woman who is already became pregnant want
to get the feel for again. However, in this situation, they may not want to
take the responsibility of the child but to feel the motherhood, surrogacy is
the best option for them. Therefore, these people willingly engaged into
surrogacy.
Role
Model: Becoming a surrogate mother is not that easy
decision as it looks like. However, those who take the decision can surely
present them as the role model for others. Those married woman who takes the
decision to be the surrogate are generally considered as role models as they
used to overcome all the odds and become surrogate mother. Especially the
unmarried girls as in spite of different social obligation they choose to
become surrogates.
Therefore, these are
primarily reasons for which a woman generally opt for surrogacy. However, there
are also some issues that are related with surrogacy. Often it is found that
though no biological relation shared with the child the surrogate mother
develops a special relation with child and refuse to give the child to
biological parents. In additionally, clinics take the advantage of poverty,
exploit the poor women, and use them as surrogates. However, still surrogacy is
on the rise and is one of best solution for the childless couples. 
